By Okay and so I’ve already been internet dating he we found on Tinder (yes, Tinder) for more than 7 months today. He goes toward school 4 several hours from my personal class, but we are closer as I’m at home (couple of hours). He’s 23 and I also’m 21. He’s the sweetest guy actually ever and I have actually dropped for him. He is experienced long lasting relationships all their existence so he previously made a pact (before the guy met me) that he wouldnt have a girlfriend in 2014. We, however, usually had a very important thing with some guy following already been omitted of this blue without any explanation. It always hovers around 2 months or much less before flopping on. So this is the longest “situation” i am in. The guy acts like he is in love with me. I obtain the appearance, and then he adores me personally as well as that. We’ve been chatting from the cellphone significantly more lately, as before we might merely speak via snapchat. I-go see him about every 3 months for a weekend (their truck is actually bad and I also have actually a fresh vehicle with great mileage, plus he’s a big man job and that I have only a career at school). Things are heading great. The guy says me as their woman and everything, no problem here. The guy stays in a property with 2 others. I understand his friends. I have fulfilled his household in which he’s met mine.
The one and only thing usually there’s no “good” dedication. And I currently told him I appreciated him (month 4, and my personal first-time saying it out loud to a guy) but at that time the guy stated he had been sorry [basically he didnt] and it was actually as a result of his previous interactions. He did have some psycho girlfriends before and additionally they had been all longterm (all 3+ years). I’m graduating this May and then he’s in until December. We possibly is certainly going to grad class closer to him or further away (based where I get in). We have no clue ideas on how to keep in touch with him and deliver things up without fooling every little thing up, and that is my biggest concern. I’m sure that he features a blueprint inside the mind that he should be “unmarried” (its technical, because we’re essentially in a relationship and he would never hack on me personally) for a while so they can target himself. A great move to make, I’m not slamming that. But i do believe the guy feels, exactly like i really do, this particular is far more permanent. Like i could definitely see my self marrying this guy. The guy constantly potential speaks (not marriage and kids, but future vacation trips and such things as that) so it isn’t a mystery about him witnessing united states having some sort of future. I simply don’t know what you should do. Assist me.